Opinion | Voices of Kashmiri Women: From Silence to Leadership

Kashmiri women have always possessed this subtle notion of being limited, not because the world suppressed them, but because they learned, or thought they learned, that their voice was not important enough. Because of their culture, their upbringing, and the misinterpretation of their religion, they began to view themselves as lacking in their capabilities and, as such, remained in the background. This is because they did not realize the importance of development, of being independent and growing as individuals, in both their culture and their religion. Therefore, they possessed an inner feeling of being inferior, as if it was improper to fight back for themselves.

This mindset shift to leadership starts with education and engaging with society. Education is the first step to achieving self-empowerment, be it formal, higher education, or vocational training, women with education develops critical thinking, and skills that help them empower themselves to be confident in this world. Education also exposes them to ideas they never thought of, which makes them aware of how things function within a social and economic framework.

Socialization plays an equally important role. Through interaction with equals, mentors, and others, women learn the art of negotiation, the ability to work in groups, and the skill to deal with differences. Interaction with disparate experiences, views, and challenges enables women to develop strength and adaptability. This prepares women to tackle real-life challenges, whether in business decisions or at home, with confidence. A woman, therefore, who understands the world around her, learns the art of blending tradition and innovation, asserting rights in a non-threatening manner, and leading others by example.

Economic independence fosters more emphasis on education and social skills. When women are earning their own money, they acquire more power and status in their homes and society. There are various avenues through which women can apply their knowledge and confidence. They can take up entrepreneurial ventures, professional careers, and small-scale businesses. They can apply their knowledge and confidence to make a tangible contribution to society. They can emerge as decision-makers, role models, and contributors to social and economic development. When women acquire skills on how to run money, people, and markets, they are equipped with competencies necessary for success in today’s world.

Cultural and religious insight enhances this platform. Women have come to understand that their previous feelings of inadequacy were based on misunderstandings or a lack of proper knowledge about proper cultural and religious notions. Proper cultural and religious insight enables them to act with confidence, integrating tradition with modern aspirations. Such ideals of education and social participation bring about awareness about how such notions of improvement and development are not against cultural or religious teachings, but are part of those very ideals of self-respect, responsibility, and social service.

Leadership starts with self-confidence, and education and exposure are the keys that open the door to self-confidence. A woman who is aware of her potential and knows how to deal well with others is ready to take the initiative. She can counter difficulties, direct others, and contribute to the family and community she is part of. Leadership is more than just being at the top and having power; leadership is influence and impact that comes out of personal development and experiences.

Cultural participation and community engagement also enable women to lead authentically and rootedly. By taking part in cultural activities and programs such as arts and literature, as well as local community projects, women are claiming identity and creating presence and voice. When these are coupled with education, critical thinking, and skills, women become stalwarts of societal and economic development. Their voices are authoritative because they are informed, experienced, and empowered. In any case, the Kashmiri story of women becoming leaders is ultimately about women empowering themselves by learning, experiencing, and acting. They realize that their potential is not confined by tradition, culture, and experiences. Learning unleashes opportunities, networking enables them to withstand challenges and becoming self-reliant leads them to command respect. Consequently, all these factors enable women to emerge as strong women who can take decisions and lead their lives, which can add value to themselves, their families, and communities. Kashmiri women of today are changing the social fabric by adopting knowledge, social experience, and personal development and making a difference by increasing the intensity of their voices and voices of women from other countries by doing the same because the social changes of the time allowed the women to prepare themselves and make a difference.

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