Mundane Relationships – Extracting The Strength from Within!

The relationship between two partners is the way in which they feel and behave towards each other. It’s human nature that every person is in huge need of love & care so everyone is trying their best to find a good soulmate but unfortunate is that no one is finding good in themselves. The societies are moving towards the Western culture & adopting their traditions, The human nature always desires that he wants a good partner instead of making good him/herself. The young teenage boys & girls of this era are highly victims of this xerox love, as the word love have no defined definition but the youths are trapping themselves in this cage where there is no value of emotions & the drops of tears falling out from their eyes, whenever they face a struggle in leading their relationship towards a better tomorrow.

Love itself means a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a partner. Nowadays the word love has lost its significance & its true nature. As far as I am concerned emotional attachment means caring, genuflecting and venerating others but also to hug the scars of others. Unfortunately in this era folk bruises the hearts of others and gives them deep scars that are incurable. In this melancholy, they plunge in depression, their dreams shatter and sky scraping careers get ruined. Some try to expirate their life and some do drugs which becomes a threat in the day society. I can say that mundane relationships spoil life. It torments the soul and haunts the heart profoundly. It makes the eyes drool and wet, it snatches the halcyon sleep. It perishes away all the happiness. It brings no peace to the heart, yes, only it is sorrows and forces to do something wrong. How would a person hope for happiness in his/ her life? In relationships a person becomes toxic and spreads the venom everywhere in the society where he/ she belongs. This is the deception from which we can’t get out and it wrecks our life completely.

My experience and observations has made me feel that most fall in love with refulgent faces, who have cars, money and other material possessions however they don’t realise that this is a fallacy and such deceptions will not make their lives happy. On the other hand nobody loves with pristine hearts even if they don’t have material possessions but who would make their life happy. These relationship have became the epicenter of depression, emotional tortures & even the source of washing the hands from life.its has been observed that the most depression & suicides cases are because of the failure in their relationship.In nowadays we are seeing this addiction is common & might be more dangerous when their communication gap begins.

These relationships have destroyed the carriers of many blooming buds. In search of this fake love we are forgetting our parents & their sacrifices in building us & how their days & nights go in providing us a comfortable luxurious life. It has been also observed that when this relationship turns into a marriage which is its final destination but Etopia of geen gardens which they were showing to each other that suddenly loses its worth. There are thousands of such cases from where it is known that love marriage is a source of inviting friction/conflicts in the families & in the societies. In this modern era it became a fashionable trend to use & through & to play with the soft emotions of the person. This disease is incurable & painful. The end of this emotional attachment may put one in struggles and these Breakups are usually taken in different ways by different people. Some handle them well and bounce back well while some don’t. A breakup should not be the end of one’s life and there are things one can do to ensure s/he still has a good time afterwards.

While it may not be easy to quickly move on from a broken relationship, it is important to evaluate things that went wrong and learn from them. The tip for doing this is to look ahead quickly. Check for things that went wrong, your faults, if any and learn from them.As we had seen in many movies how fruitful it comes after it’s ending.when either leaves you even after knowing how painful it’s might be for him/her, then what is the need of that love to you.

We all directly/indirectly publicly or private met & gone through it & it’s ending we all have different experiences from it but one thing we all have observed that its not that love which we have red or heard.In the end it’s the destruction of life & cages a person & limits his/her thinking.The major drawbacks of these relationship are, delaying marriage & wastage of golden time.

The author wants to convey his message that we all are in search of pure love in this selfish word were the humans have different faces & have brain in their hearts so life is a beautiful journey use it in making yourself & I’m sure true love will definitely find a way to reach you & Your life partner remains to be your greatest Financial and Emotional decision supporter & if you falled in this wrong, you’ll suffer because we are attracted towards beauty Remember, beauty doesn’t matter but the inner soul should be pristine.

– Shahid is a Law student and Imran an author. Feedback, if any, can be shared at advocateshahid19@gmail.com