I have a great bond with my father. He is a good man, funny, calm, loveable, kind. He is a man like no other, he gave me life, taught me , guided me, dressed me, held me , shouted at me and most important love me unconditionally. He is my teacher, my guider, my supporter. My father’s love is everything for me. My father simply is the greatest man i have ever known and yes I am proud of my father. And i almost share everything with him. Some girls just don’t have a good or healthy relationships with their fathers. Even i have noticed in my friends circle also some of my friends can’t communicate with their father happily,…Its super amazing and Alhumdulillah we are much like best friends and not father daughter . Most of kids are attached with their moms mostly because they see her whole day in the house and there is not much interaction between father and the kids but in my case i am much more attached to my Abu . I love my mom unconditionally but still the attachment with my Abu is more stronge. I’m what I am because of my amazing, loving, wonderful father. Growing up having a father as him is my favourite thing about life. Having a loving father is amazing because I know that someone is always going to have my back. It doesn’t mean that he never gets angry, or that he is never disappointed with me, but on the whole, I know he loves me. It’s an incredibly uplifting feeling I feel so lucky to have him as my Abu♥️.
(Writer Aliya Mir can be reached on aliyawrites35@gmail.com)