Gender discrimination against females is a pervasive issue that persists from birth to death, impacting every aspect of their lives. Despite progress in many areas, females continue to face unequal choices and challenges compared to males. This discrimination is deeply ingrained in societal norms and practices, often leading to a lack of support and opportunities for girls and women. I have witnessed these challenges firsthand while working in the health department in a rural area, I feel compelled to shed light on this issue.From the moment a female child is born, she is often greeted with less joy and celebration compared to a male child. This unequal treatment is evident in the distribution of sweets, which often serves as a facade to mask the disappointment of having a female child. Parents are not solely to blame for this discrimination; rather, it is a reflection of deep-rooted societal beliefs and biases.
In many cases, when a poor woman gives birth to a second female child, she is unfairly targeted and blamed for the gender of her child. This blame is unjust, as medical science has shown that the determination of a child’s gender is primarily influenced by the father. Despite this fact, the burden of blame is placed on the mother, further exacerbating her struggles.
The challenges faced by females continue as they grow older. Many girls are denied proper education, with the belief that investing in their education is futile since they will eventually marry and leave their parental home. This mindset not only deprives girls of their right to education but also limits their future opportunities and independence.Moreover, females often face strict and conservative environments that dictate what they can eat, where they can go, and how they should behave. This constant surveillance makes them feel like they are being watched at all times, robbing them of the freedom to live their lives on their terms.
As girls mature into young women, they encounter new challenges, particularly related to their physical and emotional health. The onset of menstruation and hormonal changes can be overwhelming, yet many girls receive little to no support or understanding during this crucial time. Instead, they are often dismissed or blamed for experiencing natural physiological changes.
Even in adulthood, females continue to face discrimination and neglect. Many are expected to fulfill traditional gender roles, such as cooking, cleaning, and caring for others, relegating them to the role of a servant rather than an equal partner. This unequal treatment takes a toll on their physical and mental well-being, as they are often forced to endure pain and discomfort without proper acknowledgment or support.
Despite these challenges, females are resilient and brave, facing each obstacle with courage and determination. It is essential to recognize and respect their struggles, offering them the support and opportunities they deserve. Education is a crucial tool in challenging gender discrimination, especially in rural areas where these issues are more prevalent. By educating ourselves and others, we can work towards a more equitable and inclusive society where females are valued and empowered.
Gender discrimination against females is a complex and multifaceted issue that requires collective effort to address. As a society, we must strive to create a world where girls and women are given equal opportunities and treated with the respect and dignity they deserve. It is only through such efforts that we can truly achieve gender equality and justice for all.
Regards,
(Writer Dr. Abid Younas is working as program manager In health department
Can be reached at Bmeoboniyar@gmail.com)
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