Opinion | Everything happens for a reason

Meeting people is never an accident. Someone can’t walk in and out of your life without a reason. Lessons and growth that you experience are never spontaneous. It’s always meant to be. Don’t take things for granted everything possesses a purpose an end beyond you and me. Which we will never know until we reach it. So, I want you to stop treating your experiences casual or random occurrence.

We know that every human brain possesses 2.5 petabytes (1024 terabytes) or a more than two million gigabytes of memory. You know that every human brain show an average cranial capacity of around 1400- 1500 cc. No doubt there is no difference in cranial capacity, but for sure there are differences in behaviours, pattern of thinking and understanding. People defend hardships according to their potential and share responsibilities as per their potential. So, what really kill your performance are the “fear of failure” and its side kick “doubt”

What can really help you to grow in this situation are people living around you. Something that helps you really, that teaches you important lessons.

Think about it in a world consisting of over 7.53 billion people, each capable of teaching you something. Give it a thought deeply. If people discern you as a difficult, they are feeling negative about you. You must break the cycle of negative thoughts thereby being more constructive and zestful.

Of course, there will be hurdles with every challenge. But, when you are positive you will find away over or around those obstacles. You truly know that people are not clones of one another. People have different qualities, skills and challenges. You cannot weigh people on equal quantity of battle or equal opportunities, people are unlike. Everyone deserves assessment of warmth care and humanity but, remember everyone is alike then another. They shouldn’t be treated as same.

The problem is, we always use to treat people as per our vision of analysing things and perception. I remember one of the famous theories which may help you to understand this concept well is “We” Vs “Them” where you put yourself at safest point and others at endpoint or reason for problem.

In reality we grow by holding others. Different people have different challenges and situation they are living. We need to treat people accordance to their gravity of situation. You have to make the choice to break away from those things, learn from people and stand tall. The choice always has been and always will be yours.

Love people and respect every calibre they posses they are created by Creator not by people. Hold each other’s hand to make this society a better place to live, where there will be no chance of hate.

Be the reason someone smiles today.

(Author is undergraduate multimedia and mass communication student at GDC Baramullah)